An unhappy marriage could break your heart. Is it better to leave a difficult relationship that might make you ill – or to fix it?
Many researchers say that nowadays our health directly depends on our relationships with our partner. So, if we're happy with our lovers our organism also feels good. The study of married couples shows that a greater risk of getting a heart attack is in the stressful marriages. Stress not only increases blood pressure but also messes with your hormones sufficiently to reduce immunity, increase depression and make you fat. All the research suggests is that relationships of any sort have to be happy to make us healthier than single people.
Of course, if you have someone you really appreciate close to you, everything in your life is brighter, you become kinder, you feel something like butterflies inside. So what is it, if it's not the happiness?
I think, good emotions, wich people take from the spouses, always bring a good self-feeling. Even if sometimes there can be misunderstanding between them. It is harder for single people to survive in our world, because they don't receive proper support and protection, sometimes they feel themselves lonely. And without his (her) unique human and love emotions a single person can feel itself not only sad and boring, but can also suffer. There's no doubt that in this case a human psychologically make its health facing a danger.
But what we are to do if we are not alone, but our relationships are too broken to be saved? Here I agree with author's thought: everybody should work on the marriage as in the gym. If we really want to do something to stay healthy as we get older, to save the relationships, we should not press on each other, we should be kind, honest, try to notice good things that our lovers do. That's it because otherwise it can be the death not only of our happy marriage but also us.
I think, good emotions, wich people take from the spouses, always bring a good self-feeling. Even if sometimes there can be misunderstanding between them. It is harder for single people to survive in our world, because they don't receive proper support and protection, sometimes they feel themselves lonely. And without his (her) unique human and love emotions a single person can feel itself not only sad and boring, but can also suffer. There's no doubt that in this case a human psychologically make its health facing a danger.
I believe that relationships really influence health. Firstly, it was mentioned in the article as a scientifically proven fact. Second, there are several examples among my acquaintances. Once I saw my friend all shining and realized she was madly in love. In half a year they moved to Bulgaria and just 3 months later she told that she got rid of her asthma backache and 7 kilos(she has never been fat but that time she was utterly skinny) and all that just because of happiness.
ОтветитьУдалитьAnd talking about me I've noticed that after 2 most serious quarrels I had I was totally uninterested in everything.. Full of sadness I couldn't sleep well.. I would call these days exhausting. And for example if I see love(my parents' or boyfriend's) I just can't stop filling with joy.. So do others I suppose in such cases.
But of course you must work really hard to carry your love through ages and problems whatever happened. And frankly saying I really liked your quote about gym Nastya. Thanks for having brought such interesting and important topic to our blog!